Page 84 of Some Sort of Love (Happy Crazy Love 3)
“Jillian, wait—I love you.”
I held my breath.
“I love you too,” she said, and I could tell she was crying. “It wouldn’t hurt so much if I didn’t. But time is not going to make a difference here. I’m done waiting on the outside.”
I couldn’t think of anything to say.
And she hung up.
I was miserable. Food tasted terrible. Sleep was even more elusive. Clock hands crawled. I caught Scotty’s virus and sneezed, coughed, and sniffled my way through, feeling like I deserved it. My mother brought me soup and helped out with Scotty while I lay on the couch watching horrible television and contemplating my wretched existence.
Even when I was physically healthy again I felt sick. Achey, listless, unmotivated to do anything for myself. I kept the daily routine going for Scotty’s sake but couldn’t bring myself to do anything extra. I didn’t go to the gym, didn’t call Jillian, didn’t even wear my new t-shirts. I wore the ugly, gray, stained ones and said ridiculous, self-pitying things to myself like, now your underwear matches your soul.
Even Scotty knew something was off, and this is a kid who struggles with affective cues. Two weeks after I’d last spoken to Jillian, Scotty and I were lying on the floor with pillows watching Up, one of his favorite movies, when he leaned over and rubbed my ear. Moved by the gesture, I took his hand in mine and kissed it.
“You have to smile,” he said. “Why didn’t you smile?”
My throat got tight. “I’m sad, Scotty.”
“Because Ellie died?”
“No, because I lost a friend. She…she’s my Ellie. She didn’t die, but I feel like I lost her.”
“But adventure is out there! The wilderness must be explored!”
That made me smile, if a little sadly, because I knew he wasn’t simply repeating the line for fun. Scotty recognized that, like Carl in the movie, I was missing someone, and parroting Russell’s lines was his way of communicating that he understood and wanted me to feel better. It might also have been his way of telling me to go look for her.
“Thanks, Scotty. I do want to explore the wilderness. But it can be scary.”
“What can be scary?”
I took a deep breath. “Love. To love someone like Carl and Ellie loved each other. You have to be brave.”
“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly,” he quoted.
I smiled, a real one this time. “Thanks, buddy. I’ll try to remember that.”
That night I went to bed with those words still on my mind. It was almost like Scotty was telling me it wasn’t about bravery…it was about acceptance.
Fucking genius, my kid.
• • •
The following Tuesday morning, my mother called to tell me she was coming down and wanted to see Scotty, if he was free after school. I told her she could take him to play therapy and get his dinner if she’d like, and she jumped at the chance.
“Thanks,” I said. “That will give me some time to go to the gym and maybe catch up with a friend.” I was getting much better about letting her help out and not feeling it was an indictment on my parenting.
“How nice. Jillian?” she asked nosily.
“No. A guy friend.”
She said nothing for a moment.
“Just a friend, Mom. I’m not gay.”
“OK, OK,” she said briskly. “You know I don’t care either way, I’m only interested in your life. I want you to be happy.”
I closed my eyes. “Yes, Mom. I know.”
