Page 2 of The Mismatch

Twelve.

Or sometimes she might say nothing at all, instead suggesting she doesn’t want to talk about it, which makes them think the number is at the higher end. Such enquiries focused on her level of experience, worked on the assumption that she must have some, so she didn’t feel bad about lying. She knew she couldn’t expose the extent of her inexperience; to be different was to be noticed. She didn’t want to be noticed. Not in that way.

Soraya Nazari was twenty-one years old and had never been kissed.

At school and sixth form it was clear she was a virgin; everyone knew she wasn’t allowed a boyfriend; her family’s strictness was recognised. She wore unflattering clothes that showed no skin, no curve of her body revealed, her shape left to the imagination, though she doubted anyone bothered toimagine it. She didn’t go to parties, or the final-year Prom. She wasn’t allowed.

At university, away from home, in London, no one knew her past. The only exception was her closest friend Oliver. But his predicament was akin to hers, their mutual understanding unspoken and concrete.

Perhaps suspecting moving away from home would lead to haram acts, a week before Soraya moved away, three years ago now, her mum took her on a walk along Worthing Beach.

There was only an elderly couple walking along the seafront at a distance. The wind was lashing hard enough to almost blow her mum’s silk hijab away. Despite the wind, though, the sky was clear.

‘I need to talk to you about something, and you need to take what I say seriously,’ her mum had said.

Soraya could already feel the weight of what her mum wanted to say, and longed to escape such a conversation.

‘Boys will try and get you alone when you go away. They may try and dothingswith you.’ Despite her mum’s grave tone, Soraya rolled her eyes. ‘Don’t let them do that. They only have one thing on their mind. Doing it would ruin your life. And remember …’ she paused for dramatic effect ‘ … God is watching.’

‘I know,’ Soraya said. ‘Nothing will happen. I’m smart enough, don’t worry.’

At least she hadn’t lied to her mother: nothing did happen at university.

Soraya carefully considered everything she did; she thought and rethought the consequences of her actions. It was not as simple as once she moved away from home to university, all of the teachings from her younger years about the importance of morals and purity were discarded. She was gradual in her approach; gradual in doing the things she longed to do when she was growing up.

In first year, she drank for the first time, took drugs and went to parties.

In second year, she wore short skirts and dresses without tights.

In third year, she attempted to talk to boys. But unlike the other rules she broke, this one was difficult to do with reckless abandon. Muslim guilt was a funny thing. It came when she least expected it.

It was impossible to disentangle her guilt at disobeying God from the guilt of disobeying her parents. The weight of it sat limp and heavy inside her.

As a girl the rules enforced upon her all related to her sexuality, specifically with the aim of preserving her virginity. Going to parties and drinking alcohol led to a loosening of inhibitions (supposedly), which would (supposedly) then lead to premarital sex, known as zina.A shameful deed, an evil, which leads to other evils.

But with more and more time spent away from home, she wondered why sex was so evil. Why disobeying her family was so abhorrent. Why so much focus in her family’s preaching was on controlling her, rather than on her being a good and just person.

She longed to think freely, and not overanalyse her every decision.

Such thoughts, whilst troubling in the dead of night when she was unable to sleep, were unimportant now. It was a week before her graduation, and she had to either find a job or move back home with her parents. Whilst she was once, three years ago, like a rabbit released into the wild, there was now the imminent threat of having to return to the same small hutch. A hutch she had outgrown.

**

‘Why do you want to work for Purple B? Why marketing? Why data protection?’

It was Soraya’s first graduate job interview, but she was fairly certain they were only meant to ask one question at a time.

She laughed nervously to buy herself some time. She looked around the bland meeting room, hoping inspiration would spark, but with its glass walls it was sterile apart from the rectangular table and the chairs surrounding it.

‘Um, well, I have a keen interest in social media, and I know how to use all the channels really well. You’re a company that prides yourself on keeping people and companies safe, and data protection is incredibly important, especially today, with all the scandals in the news …’ She wasn’t actually sure if there were any scandals in the news currently, but gave them a ‘you know’ look as though this was obvious.

The two interviewers nodded slightly. The younger of them was a portly man who gave her a reassuring smile, whilst the bald-headed older man was impassive.

Their team was small, contained within one medium-sized office, and the meeting room she was in was akin to a fish tank. She didn’t dare look at the workers outside for fear that they were looking in.

‘How do you think you can get people to subscribe? There’s so much free content online everywhere these days, how canyouencourage paid subscribers?’ the older man asked.

Well, Soraya thought,aren’t you meant to teach me that?Somehow this was not a question her English Literature degree had prepared her for.